Trauma to Transformation: the lived experience of bereaved parents of children with chronic life-threatening illnesses in Singapore
Asia; Attitude to Death; Bereavement – Singapore; Chinese; Critical Illness – Singapore; Ethnic Groups; Grounded Theory; Human; India – Ethnology; Interviews; Life Experiences – Evaluation – Singapore; Palliative Care – Singapore; Parent-Child Relations – Singapore; Parents – Psychosocial Factors – Singapore; Pediatric Care – Singapore; Posttraumatic Growth; Psychological – Prevention and Control – Singapore; Psychological Well-Being; Psychosocial; Qualitative Studies; Rituals and Ceremonies; Singapore; Single Parent – Psychosocial Factors; Spouses – Psychosocial Factors; Support
Background: In 2016, over 6.6 million children died globally, and 245 children died in Singapore. Chronic illnesses are prevalent causes of child mortality around the world. Despite growing research that examines the lived experience of parents bereaved by their child's chronic life-threatening illness, there is no such study within the Asian context. Methods: To bridge this knowledge gap, meaning-oriented, strength-focused interviews were conducted with 25 parental units (i.e. 6 couples, 13 lone mothers, 4 lone fathers, and 2 primary parental figures) who lost their child to chronic life-threatening illness in Singapore (N = 31), including those of Chinese (n = 17), Malay (n = 10) and Indian ethnicities (n = 4), between August 2017 and April 2018. Results: Data analysis adhering to the grounded theory approach revealed 7 themes and 25 sub-themes that were organized into a Trauma-to-Transformation Model of Parental Bereavement. This model shows the major milestones in participants' lived experience of their child's chronic life-threatening illness and death, starting from the diagnosis of their child's chronic life-threatening illness and the subsequent emotional turmoil (Theme 1), the mourning of their child's death and the losses which accompanied the death (Theme 3) and participants' experience of posttraumatic growth through reflection of their journey of caregiving and child loss (Theme 5). The model further describes the deliberate behaviors or 'rituals' that helped participants to regain power over their lives (Theme 2), sustain an intimate bond with their child beyond death (Theme 4), and transcend their loss by deriving positive outcomes from their experience (Theme 6). Finally, the model denotes that the lived experiences and well-being of participants were embedded within the health-and-social-care ecosystem, and in turn impacted by it (Theme 7). Conclusion: These themes and their corresponding sub-themes are discussed, with recommendations for enhancing culturally sensitive support services for grieving Asian parents around the globe.
Dutta O; Tan-Ho G; Choo P Y; Low X C; Chong P H; Ng C; Ganapathy S; Ho A H Y
BMC Palliative Care
2020
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<a href="http://doi.org/10.1186/s12904-020-00555-8" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">10.1186/s12904-020-00555-8</a>
Thematic analysis of spousal interaction patterns among Asian parents of children with chronic life-threatening illness
Asia; bereavement; paediatric palliative care; qualitative research; spousal relationship; thematic analysis
OBJECTIVE: This is the first known study which examines the evolutionary nature of spousal interaction patterns among Asian parents of children with chronic life-threatening illness, from the time of providing care to their child through bereavement. This study is informed by earlier findings that when a child is diagnosed with a chronic life-threatening illness, parents are faced with multiple stressors, leaving them with little time to invest in their spousal relationship. PARTICIPANTS AND SETTING: A constructivist-phenomenological research paradigm was adopted and meaning-oriented interviews were conducted with 20 parental units (i.e., 6 couples, 12 lone mothers and 2 lone fathers) of Chinese, Malay and Indian ethnicities who lost their child to chronic life-threatening illness in Singapore. RESULTS: Qualitative thematic analysis of the data revealed four themes, which describe the evolutionary nature of spousal interaction patterns among Asian parents of children with chronic life-threatening illness, from caregiving through bereavement. Findings reveal participants' tendency to concentrate on pragmatic, solution-focused communication during the period of caregiving (pragmatic interaction), avoid discussion about their emotional pain as a means of protecting their spouse (partner-oriented self-regulation), respect and acknowledge their spouse's personal coping strategies (empathic responding) and show greater appreciation and emotional expression within the spousal relationship after their child's death (affective appreciation). CONCLUSION: Engaging in pragmatic discussions, deferring emotion-focused and potentially distressing conversations, and acknowledging their spouse's need for personal space are important coping strategies for Asian couples facing their child's chronic life-threatening illness and in the immediate aftermath of his/her death. Bereaved couples who have processed their grief individually feel ready to share their reflections with their spouse, deriving meaning and greater relational closeness through such disclosure. These findings are discussed from a cultural lens, with recommendations for healthcare professionals working with Asian parents of children with chronic life-threatening illness.
Ho A H Y; Dutta O; Tan-Ho G; Choo P Y; Low X C; Chong P H; Ng C; Ganapathy S
BMJ Open
2019
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<a href="http://doi.org/10.1136/bmjopen-2019-032582" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">10.1136/bmjopen-2019-032582</a>